ABC Coaching and Counselling Services, in Hebden Bridge HX7 8HJ, near Halifax, West Yorkshire
And all over the world via Skype, email and the telephone system
We can help you with: Anger management counselling – Couples therapy – Lifestyle coaching – Confidence and self esteem – Stress management – Life goals and managing habits and behaviours – Attachment style – Emotional control (depression and anxiety)
Do you want to benefit from our coaching, counselling or psychotherapy services?
Would you like to feel better – less depressed, anxious or unhelpfully angry?
Would you like to have better relationships, at home, in work, in business, in college, etc.?
Do you feel under the weather, sad, depressed, or discouraged about the difficulties in your life?
We can help you to live ‘the Good Life’!
Contact one of us today:
1. Dr Jim Byrne
Dr Jim Byrne, Doctor of Counselling, Hebden Bridge, West Yorkshire, and via the telephone system, Skype, and/or email exchanges.
If you need help with problems of anger, anxiety, depression, stress, self confidence, insecure attachment style in relationships, or couple conflict, then I can help you. I have helped more than 1,000 people have a better life, over a twenty year period.
Email: email@example.com – Telephone: 01422 843 629 (or, from outside the UK, 44 1422 843 629.
Or take a look at my main web page: Dr Jim’s Counselling and Psychotherapy Division.
2. Renata Taylor-Byrne
Renata Taylor-Byrne, BSc Psychology, Dip Stress Management, Hebden Bridge, West Yorkshire, and via the telephone system.
I am a ‘people grower’. A lifestyle coach-counsellor. I help individuals to tackle those problems that keep them stuck in unhelpful places in their lives. People come to see me with problems of stress, self confidence, goal setting and resilience in the face of life’s difficulties; plus self assertion and communication problems. Sometimes they are struggling with depression or grief or sadness; or anxiety or panic. I can help you too.
Email: firstname.lastname@example.org. Telephone: 01422 843 629 (or, from outside the UK, 44 1422 843 629.
Or see my main web page: Renata’s Lifestyle Coaching and Counselling Division.
Or take a look at The Books Division.***
For books on stress, holistic counselling;
how to process and eliminate old traumas;
a critique of rational and cognitive therapy;
and much more besides.
For example, our new book is now available. How to control your anger, anxiety and depression, using nutrition and physical activity.***
And there are more counselling-related books here: The Books Division.***
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On counselling, coaching, psychotherapy, psychology, philosophy of psychotherapy, neuroscience, nutritional mental health, and many other related subjects.
In E-CENT counselling, we teach some of the core insights of (moderate) Buddhism and Stoicism. Here’s a simple example of how that works:
The Buddha said: “Get a grip on your mind”.
The core of the work of an E-CENT counsellor is designed to help our clients to get a grip on their mind; their thinking; their feeling states; their behaviour patterns. (2b)
However, unlike the Buddha, and because of historical changes, we emphasize that you will never get a grip on ‘your mind’ unless you realize you are actually a body-brain-mind-environment whole; and you have to take seriously the self-management of each of those elements, especially by paying attention to diet, exercise, sleep pattern, nutritional supplementation, (which were not big issues in the time of the Buddha), as well as meditation and self-disciplining of your thinking-feeling – (which were big issues way back then!)
Dr Jim Byrne and Renata Taylor-Byrne
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What is Emotive-Cognitive Embodied-Narrative Therapy (E-CENT)?
By Dr Jim Byrne
Copyright (c) 2009-2016, Jim Byrne
(Updated December 2017)
Posted here on 4th December 2017
This was one of the first things I wrote about Emotive-Cognitive embodied Narrative Therapy (E-CENT). I wrote it to try to clarify how the various elements of E-CENT, which had emerged by 2009, fitted together.
In this 22 page paper, the author describes the nature of Emotive-Cognitive Embodied-Narrative Therapy (E-CENT). He introduces some of the E-CENT models of the human mind; outlines the foundations of the basic theory of E-CENT counselling, by summarizing eight of the nineteen key features, or principles, which characterize this integrative system; lists a small number of the main models that are used to structure E-CENT counselling sessions; and ends by describing the E-CENT therapist’s style.
The following quotation provides a concise flavour of the E-CENT approach to counselling and therapy:
“E-CENT sees humans as essentially (emotional) story tellers, to ourselves and others, and storytellers who live in a world of narratives and scripts, which include reasonable and unreasonable elements, logical and illogical elements, and defensible and indefensible elements. Humans often tend to push away (or repress) unpleasant experiences, to fail to process them, and to then become the (unconscious) victims of those repressed, undigested experiences. E-CENT also sees adult relationships as being the acting out of childhood experiences with parents and siblings, because some part of those earlier relationships have not been properly digested and completed”.
Extract from E-CENT Counselling: How to apply Emotive-Cognitive Embodied-Narrative Therapy in counselling and self-help, By Dr Jim Byrne.***
Emotive-Cognitive Embodied-Narrative Therapy (E-CENT) is a system of counselling and psychotherapy which helps clients to work on their brain-mind-body-and-relationships in order to reduce and control negative or painful emotions and behaviours, like anger, anxiety, depression, stress, self-confidence and couple conflict.
…For more, please click this link: What is E-CENT Counselling?***
Attachment theory and neo-Freudian psychoanalysis
Some thoughts by D Jim Byrne
Copyright © Jim Byrne, 2013-2017
Neither Transactional Analysis (TA), nor Rational and cognitive therapy (REBT/CBT), pay much attention to the concept of “attachment” – or how securely or insecurely a child feels in its relationships with its main carers. Indeed, REBT often seem to deny the impact of childhood on the emotional development of the individual.
Where does E-CENT* theory stand in relation to Attachment theory? (*E-CENT is the acronym for Emotive-Cognitive Embodied Narrative Therapy – and this system of counselling and therapy was developed by me, out of a fusion of 13-15 pre-existing systems of counselling and therapy!)
(a) Similarities: E-CENT accepts the basic thesis of Attachment theory, which claims (with considerable scientific support) that each individual begins its life with an urge to seek an ‘attachment figure’, normally mother, initially, and later, father. And that they become securely attached if their carers relate to them in ways that they can experience as caring, sensitive, and supportive/ reassuring. The apparent function of this innate urge is survival of the species. New mothers are also assumed to be ‘wired up’ by both nature and culture, to seek to serve the new-born baby in ways that enhance the child’s survival. These two urges can be seen in all forms of mammals.
…End of extract. For more, please go to the Attachment Theory and Counselling page.***
Developments in counselling and therapy theory:
From Freud to Schore!
By Dr Jim Byrne, January 2018
Every counsellor and psychotherapist needs to understand where their beliefs and attitudes, values and skills come from. And every counselling and psychotherapy client needs to know that not all theories of counselling and therapy lead to the same kinds of treatment for them, or to the same kinds of curative outcomes.
Sigmund Freud’s psychoanalysis was the first major manifestation of psychotherapy in the modern sense. It was quickly followed by behaviour therapy, which arose in the UK and Russia in roughly the same era as Freud’s innovation.
Freud emphasized the non-conscious urges of the new born baby, and how it related to its carers with sexual phantasies (in which ‘sexual’ actually meant ‘any manifestation which we would normally think of as love’). Because Freud craved scientific respectability, he build his system on the back of biology and his experience of neurology. But his limited perspective was this: Humans evolve sexually, from simple beginnings through puberty to full genital sexual potency. But this is only one aspect of human biological and neurological development. The more important ones include attachment urges, from about the age of two months (Schore, 1994, 2003), and the development of the right orbitofrontal cortex, which is the seat of the internalization of social modelling of emotion regulation.
…End of extract. For more, please click this link: Affect Regulation Theory.***
What is Transactional Analysis, and how is it used in E-CENT counselling?
Four models from Transactional Analysis (TA) counselling, as used in Classic TA and in E-CENT counselling: (1) The ego-state theory and model; (2) Script theory; (3) The Drama Triangle; and (4) the OK Corral. Quotes and video footage from Dr Eric Berne.
Resource 3 – How to understand and apply Transactional Analysis (TA) in your life
by Dr Jim Byrne
Updated 13th July 2016. Posted here on 9th January 2018
Copyright (c) Jim Byrne, 2009-2015/2018
Sigmund Freud created the insight that the human individual has three main components to their personality or being. These are: (1) the part that was born (the body-mind, or the ‘it’); (2) The internalized others (mainly mother and father, etc; which he called the over-I); and (3) The socialized personality (which he called the I: which Anglicized psychoanalysis called ‘the ego’).
Freud’s system of psychoanalysis was slow and difficult, and involved trying to externalize the contents of the non-conscious part of the mind of the patient/client.
Eric Berne was an American medical doctor and trained psychiatrist, who, at the end of the Second World War, was interested in finding ways of making psychoanalysis more accessible to ordinary people, in a way that was quicker and more efficient than Freud’s approach.
Dr Eric Berne began to develop his popularized approach to psychotherapy somewhere in the 1940’s when he was a US Army medical officer; but his first paper on Transactional Analysis (TA) proper did not appear until 1957 (according to Stewart, 1989). Much work was done in the 1950’s and ‘60’s, with Games People Play appearing in 1964; and What Do You Say After You Say Hello? appearing in 1972 (after Berne’s early death in 1970).
Transactional Analysis really began when Dr Berne was working with a successful lawyer as a therapy client. This lawyer felt very much an adult in his work, but he had an occasional tendency to say; “I’m not really a lawyer. I’m just a little boy!” Eventually Berne realized… End of extract… For more, please click this link: Transactional Analysis, by Dr Jim Byrne…***
What we are guided by:
Our counselling, coaching and psychotherapy work is informed by the following disciplines, insights and processes: Affect Regulation Theory (Daniel Hill and Allan Schore); Attachment theory (John Bowlby, Mary Ainsworth, Mary Main, Peter Fonagy, David Wallin); Assertive communication (Robert Bolton and Helen Hall Clinard); Behaviour modification (reinforcement theories); Cognitive psychology and cognitive science (Antonio Damasio, Douglas Hofstadter); Dietary insights and advice (Leslie Korn, Giulia Enders, Kelly Brogan, Patrick Holford); Emotive-cognitive therapy; Emotions first, cognitions second; Erhard Seminar Training insights; Exercise guidance; Food as the best medicine (alongside exercise and sleep); Freudian (or post-Freudian) insights into completion of experiences that were interrupted in childhood; Gestalt therapy (Fritz Perls; modern Chair-work); Healing relationship approaches; a tiny amount of Jungian insights into personality types; Kantian approaches to event/interpretation; Meditation (before and during counselling sessions, as appropriate); Narrative therapy approaches; aspects of Psychosynthesis; aspects of Psychoanalysis; Physical exercise advice and guidance; Radical acceptance of the person; Reasoning processes (critical thinking skills – but recognising that we are fundamentally emotional beings!); Re-parenting; Sensitive caring (re-parenting and befriending); Sleep promotion; Systematic desensitisation (for traumatic experiences); Trauma processing; Thinking skills (founded on emotional intelligence); Transactional Analysis; Verbal and non-verbal communication of affect-regulating capacities; Welcoming attitude; Yoga (and Tai Chi/Chi Kung) promotion for physical and mental health. And Zen meditation; and perhaps many other elements.
The E-CENT counselling and psychotherapy approach to understanding and managing human emotion
by Dr Jim Byrne, Doctor of Counselling, August 2016
This is a ten page extract from the forty page Chapter 5 of my new book, Holistic Counselling in Practice. The chapter is titled: Understanding and Managing Human Emotions.
This is how it begins:
Because counsellors and psychotherapists deal with their clients’ emotions – (as well as their behaviours, goals, relationships; plus their environmental stressors, and so on) – every system of counselling and therapy has to have a theory of emotion.
This, however, is a significant problem, for three reasons:
- Firstly: Human emotion is hugely complex. For example, Stephen Pinker, in his book on how the mind works, draws attention to a quotation from G.K. Chesterton about the unutterable complexityof human emotional tones and moods and shades, which begins like this: “Man knows that there are in the soul tints more bewildering, more numberless, and more nameless than the colours of an autumn forest”. (Page 367)[i]. Therefore, at the very least, we should show some humility in developing our systemic models of such complexity.
- Secondly: As one psychotherapist has pointed out: “The terms ‘feeling’ and ‘emotion’, and ‘affect’ are used in many different senses in psychology. A review of more than twenty theories of emotion reveals a plethora of widely diverging technical definitions. These vary with the technique of investigation, the general theoretical framework, and the value-judgements of the psychologist. Often, they are so diverse as to defy comparison let alone synthesis”.[ii] So we are not going to arrive at a universal definition of emotion in this book; though we have to come to some working hypotheses, in the form of practical conclusions, which allow us to understand and help our clients.
- Third: There is a good deal of confusion regarding whether emotions are innate, or socially imposed; and whether they exist ‘inside the client’ or ‘outside’ in social relationships.
With regard to point 3, which is the most fundamental question we face, we should resolve that issue up front:
(a) In E-CENT counselling, we use the insight from Dylan Evans’ (2003) book on emotion, about ‘degrees of innateness or learned emotions’. This means that we accept the conclusion that some basic emotional wiring is innate, at birth. However, those basic emotions (or feelings) are inevitably shaped by the culture of the mother (and father [normally]) into acceptable and unacceptable expressions of affect – or observable manifestations of feelings – over time. The main concepts we use are: …
…For more, please click this link: The E-CENT counselling and psychotherapy approach to understanding and managing human emotion
ABC Coaching and Counselling Services, 27 Wood End, Hebden Bridge, HX7 8HJ, UK. Established since November 1998.
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Telephone: 01422 843 629 (UK): 44 1422 843 629 (from outside the UK)
Or email us: Jim Byrne
Counselling and coaching ethics: We operate according to a range of ethical codes – see our respective divisional pages for details.
We provide highly effective and highly rated coaching and counselling and psychotherapy services for adults aged 18 years and above. We do not offer any services to children, nor to anyone below the age of eighteen years. Neither do we publish anything that could be harmful to the interests and needs of children.
Our approach: We offer a system of post-CBT coaching, counselling and psychotherapy. We have both moved on from REBT. We combine various systems, such as: Transactional Analysis, Attachment theory, Affect regulation therapy, Person-centred counselling, Lifestyle coaching, the Skilled Helper approach, and many more. We straddle all three of the major schools of psychotherapy.